Sunday, April 02, 2006

Random thoughts

I have no pictures. Just sitting here with Wesley. He is playng some old school video game. Thomas and Wendy are napping. We have had so much rain this year I feel as though I am living in the great Northwest again. Last week Wendy's grandmother passed away. She is flying to Denver on Tuesday for the funeral. At the same time I am flying to Los Angeles for a business trip. My mom is coming down here to spend time with the boys.

I am happy that last summer we took the boys to see Wendy's grandmother. She had asked me for years to go as she knew it may not be long before she is no longer with us. In addition, Wendy had the opportunity to talk with her a few days before she passed. I think that brought some closure as they had the 3 boy bond and Wendy was able to tell her the name of our third boy - Nathan.

Wesley is starting kindergarden soon. I know everyone says this but I cannot believe how quick time is going. Life seems to blur from one experience to another and very quickly. I want to enjoy my time with them so much more and take the time to be patient. That is my theme this week - patience.

Heather (www.foursweetpeas.blogspot.com) has inspired me with her photography and "grateful fridays". I am not going to try to imitate her photography I can only admire it. But I thought I would steal the grateful entries. I may not be as consistent but things I am grateful for as I sit here:

  • Wesley saying, "Dad, I love video games."
  • Thomas's determination and love of work (he loves to vacuum with me)
  • Wendy's support, friendship, companionship and laughs. I love that we can laugh about things that annoy us about one another rather than fight about it. (usually...)
  • My house
  • The coffee I have this morning
  • Josh studying the bible and really changing
  • My friend Jonathan coming over to talk
  • My mom coming down this week to hang with the boys
  • The opportunity I have to grow and learn at work
  • Really bad Michael Moore video I watched with Wendy last night
  • Reflection
That's all for now...

1 comment:

Heather said...

I'm so sorry about Wendy's Grandmother!! I'm so grateful my kids are getting to build great relationships with thier grandma's. This post made me tear up a little, not just becuase I'm touched by the lovely complement you gave me, but becuase your writing about your children and the time you spend with them is so gentle and filled with love. The time does go by so fast, I wish there were a way to stop time and rewind and relive the moments.